I am separated, the divorce is not final, but there is no chance of reconciliation. I debated whether to join POF because of that. I know some people might have a problem with that, and I understand. That being said, my friends finally convinced me to try it out, so here I am looking to start a new chapter in my life doing more things for me.
Ultimately I'd like to find that perfect relationship for me, but I am smart enough to know that you need to start out as friends. I am also old enough to know that I don't want any head games, or someone who lies. I am a hopeless romantic, I want the happily ever after!
I have two amazing children, 7 and 13, that are my world. My family is very important to me, and we are very close. I grew up in New Mexico, but have lived in Virginia for over 20 years now. I enjoy live music, I especially love hard rock and metal, but my iPod has some other stuff too. When my kids are not with me, I love hanging out with my friends. I tend to be shy and quiet, but once I get to know someone, I do come out of my shell. As a single mom, I really can't be too spontaneous very often, but I love to try new things, go to new places.